What it feels like to love somebody who cannot communicate the way they once did

May 24, 2025, 10:50 AM ET
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People in a vegetative state may be far more aware than was once thought, Sarah Zhang reports in a recent feature. “In some extraordinary patients, the line between conscious and unconscious is more permeable than one might expect,” she writes. As scientists continue to try to comprehend the inner life of unresponsive patients, their work raises questions both for those living with these conditions and for the people who love them. Can these individuals hear us, and even understand us? What do we owe them? Today’s reading list explores the human mind, and what it feels like to love somebody who cannot communicate the way they once did.
On the Human Mind
The Mother Who Never Stopped Believing Her Son Was Still There
By Sarah Zhang
For decades, Eve Baer remained convinced that her son, unresponsive after a severe brain injury, was still conscious. Science eventually proved her right.
How People With Dementia Make Sense of the World
By Dasha Kiper
The human brain has a way of creating logic, even when it’s drifting from reality.
A Scientific Feud Breaks Out Into the Open
By Ross Andersen
I’m a pseudoscience? No, you’re a pseudoscience!
Still Curious?
- The Texas county where “everybody has somebody in their family” with dementia: Risk factors for dementia usually come in clusters—and in Starr County, Texas, an almost entirely Hispanic community, they quickly stack up.
- How dementia locks people inside their pain: When a person feels pain but doesn’t understand it, they can end up silently suffering, Marion Renault wrote in 2021.
Other Diversions
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